Your privacy matters to us — especially in a club built on discretion. This page explains in plain language what data we store and why.
When you register we store your username, email address, password (as a secure hash — we never see it), your chosen city, year of birth, and the bio and photo you add. We temporarily store your registration IP address for abuse prevention; it is automatically erased after 180 days. Private messages are stored so you and your conversation partner can read them.
We never sell your data, never share it with advertisers, and never show your email address to other members. Your profile shows only your username, city, photo and bio.
We send transactional emails only: a welcome email, password resets and notifications when you receive a message. Sending is handled by SparkPost, our email delivery provider.
We use a session cookie to keep you logged in and an optional 30-day "remember me" cookie. No tracking or advertising cookies.
You can edit your profile at any time and delete your account — including all photos and messages — permanently and immediately at Delete my account. For any data request, contact us at our contact page.